No idea? no problem. what are your choices?
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If you're going to be turning 16 or 18 soon you might feel a bit overwhelmed with what your next stage is going to be. If you are, don't panic. You still have plenty of time to decide what's right for you. In these videos our chief presenter Moj Taylor gives you a few ideas that might help you work out what the best option for you is next.
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Push's blog gives you all the help you'll need when you've not got a clue what you want to do. Check out the featured blog posts below which go through ideas on what to fill your time with post-18, and tips on changing your way of thinking about the future.
push's 90 second guides:
which choice at 18?
Push guest speaker Ben - who took a different route to getting a degree (via his job) gives advice on the choice to make at 18 if you feel you've no idea.
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Professional actor & Push presenter Stephen Bradley expresses what he wished he'd known when he was finishing school. He highlights how he felt anxiety as a teenager, and how to combat this.
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push's 90 second guide:
Putting pressure on yourself
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Push guest speaker Ben - who took a different route to getting a degree (via his job) gives his tips on how to take the pressure off yourself when big choices in life are on the horizon (at 16, 18, 21)...
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Deciding what to do next

So, you've landed on this page, probably feeling confused or anxious (or just a little resentful) that your mates to one side are all dreaming of a degree, and your mates on the other side are waxing lyrical about the benefits of an apprenticeship.
You're in the middle, but you're no piggy. Listen up closely: it's absolutely fine to have zero idea about what you want to do with your life, whether you staring at these words as a 16 year old or a 46 year old.
Most of the panic about choosing what you might do after school comes from the feeling that you're meant to have the next 30 years of your life planned out and mapped by the time you blow out those 18 candles, and that everyone else has had it planned out in their heads since they were 10.
They haven't, and even if people are dead set on university or an apprenticeship route, that doesn't mean they necessarily know what they want to do beyond that.
You're in the middle, but you're no piggy. Listen up closely: it's absolutely fine to have zero idea about what you want to do with your life, whether you staring at these words as a 16 year old or a 46 year old.
Most of the panic about choosing what you might do after school comes from the feeling that you're meant to have the next 30 years of your life planned out and mapped by the time you blow out those 18 candles, and that everyone else has had it planned out in their heads since they were 10.
They haven't, and even if people are dead set on university or an apprenticeship route, that doesn't mean they necessarily know what they want to do beyond that.
push's 90 second guide:
Alternatives routes
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So maybe you’re feeling that university isn’t the path for you right now. That’s completely fine; not everyone wants to (or is even suited to) university life straight after school.
People go to university in their 20s or 30s (or even in their 80s). Just because you don't go now, it doesn't mean you can't ever.
What’s great is that there’s so many alternatives to uni (more than ever before) available to you now.
People go to university in their 20s or 30s (or even in their 80s). Just because you don't go now, it doesn't mean you can't ever.
What’s great is that there’s so many alternatives to uni (more than ever before) available to you now.
path-picked people

The people who often seem so sure on a certain path for the next few years normally fall into three categories:
- The passionate pass-time people:
Those who follow what they're truly passionate about (a favourite subject, a hobby, a skill), or just something they're really curious about getting really good at. This might be because it looks fun and holds their attention, because an experience related to the thing has affected them profoundly in life, or they admire someone famous or well-known who seems really happy dedicating their life to it.
- The parent-led people:
Those who do something because their parents either do it and love it (happens a lot), or they dreamt of doing it but never did (more likely) and have drip-fed their own career dreams onto you. It can be a wonderful feeling in life to be passionate about the exact same things as the people who have raised you up until now, but if you're not at all like them then that's fine too. Every single human being is different in what they're curious about. If you're different, be strong-willed enough to follow a completely different path to them, (hopefully with their love and support.)
- The played by ear people
Those who are brave enough to just leap into the unknown and go with their instincts over what feels like the right thing to do right now in life. That might mean you stay at home for a bit and earn some money while researching. Or you leap into an apprenticeship or alternative training scheme with a local employer. Or you leap into a degree in something that sounds weird and fun. Or you leap into a volunteering programme in Africa or South America, then see how your experiences have made you feel after a year away.
push's 90 second guide:
what to do if you have no idea
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No idea what to do next? Aron gives you some words of advice.
whatever you do, Don't do nothing

The only thing to not do is do nothing. Don't be a sloth (even though they look chilled). Sloths can worry about being a sloth, that's their job. You're not here in life to imitate them.
The average UK human only gets around 700,000 hours alive, so why on earth would you not want to throw yourself into things? Some things will work, a lot of things won't, but you learn just as much about what you might want from life by experiencing a little of what you definitely wouldn't want.
Jump headfirst into education, training or experience, or a combination of all three each day. Doing nothing doesn't help your family, your relationships or (most importantly) you and your dreams, nor does it help your mental and physical wellbeing.
The average UK human only gets around 700,000 hours alive, so why on earth would you not want to throw yourself into things? Some things will work, a lot of things won't, but you learn just as much about what you might want from life by experiencing a little of what you definitely wouldn't want.
Jump headfirst into education, training or experience, or a combination of all three each day. Doing nothing doesn't help your family, your relationships or (most importantly) you and your dreams, nor does it help your mental and physical wellbeing.
PUSH'S 90 SECOND GUIDE:
The power of passion (and what you do)
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Guest speaker Ben discusses the power of passion. Cool it, Casanova
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